Secure the bag bro/sis!

What it do squad😻

This week's topic may hit home for some of you. This week we're talking about...

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Yep you guessed right, this week we're talking about all those feelings that are hidden away deep down inside your heart. 

Raging hormones, these can be dangerous if we don't know how to control them, especially in high school.

New word in the dictionary:

Hormones (n.):

Hormones are chemical substances that act like messenger molecules in the body. After being made in one part of the body, they travel to other parts of the body where they help control how cells and organs do their work. 

Secure the Bag (v.):

The bag being anything you want/desire. You must obtain it or accomplish. To achieve a goal.


Have you ever had this feeling in your stomach where you feel as though there are butterflies in your stomach when you see this specific somebody💖?  There are times where you try your level best to put these feelings to rest, because you fear being rejected by this special somebody. This frequently starts in mid primary school. 


Story time:

2017 was a year full of roller-coasters, in March I went to visit my primary school, this was such a fun experience. When I went back home, I received a text from my friends saying that there's some guy who was asking for my number. At first I was adamant that hell would break loose the day I give they give this guy my number. After some time, I realized that it wouldn't hurt for them to give him the number. We started talking,he was very funny and he had determination. We became close friends, we knew (almost)everything about each other, and 6 months later, before I knew it, he went from being my friend to my boyfriend. We were together for a good 3-4 months, then we broke up. I wish I'd listened to my friends when they warned me about him. The lesson I learned was that don't be so quick to rush into doing anything, just because everyone else is doing it. 

So, do you have your eye on this special somebody, but don't know how to shoot your shot, here's how:

  • Give yourself a pep talk, this will help improve your self-confidence.
  • Wait until the right time, you don't want to be approaching them whilst they're still spending time with their friends.
  • Act natural, simply be yourself

How to keep your conversations/chats going and flowing like the water😚💧:

  • Talk about them.
  • Highlight your common interests.
  • Know when to break away (to end the conversation)

How to portray yourself to him/her:

  • Be confident.
  • Smile.
  • Bath, pray, then slay.
  • Always keep a positive attitude.
My advice to you would be do it now, because tomorrow is not guaranteed. It is okay to be rejected, it's a bitter part of life that we have to accept, at least you did and now you know how she/he feels about you.

Quote of the day: 

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Videos to help/ give further advice: 


Until next week darlings💕!

Enjoy the last few days of Winter✨










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